Dear Dad,
Today marks 5 months since you left us!
I would ask how you are, but the many times you’ve come into my dreams you look so well! The last message you gave me, I’ve told mum. My husband said I was laughing out loud whilst I was sleeping, I explained to him that you came in my dream and told me at your next ceremony (ashes) to tell the Gianni (priest) not to make the ardass (prayer) by going on about what a good man I was, they’ll get tired for standing too long. In my dream you stood next to as we poured your ashes into the sea, then it was time for the ardass which was so long, the people attending had trouble standing! You kept saying to me ‘see, I told you not to make it too long, and now they are all tired ! Even though you are not here, you still continue to look out for others.
Dad, you use to take me and Kawal to your garage/workshop on a regular basis. You had this white, 3 door, sporty looking car! You parked up outside your workshop and told us to wait in the car while you opened up. Anyway, this man who was parked up in front of your car had trouble getting out of his space. He went back and forth and back and forth ! Finally, he got out of his car and came to our window.
He asked who parked the car. We said our dad, he replied ‘he hasn’t left an inch for me to get out, what is he a racing driver?’ We replied ‘yeah!’ 😂
Anyway, the man finally got his car out and left!
You came back to get us and we told you what the man said
You shook your head and replied ‘that’s not a good answer next time tell them your dad picked up the car and put it in the space!
😂
Miss you Dad x
This happened about 30 years ago cherish your memories! Write them down so you never forget and you can pass these stories on!
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